Parenting

 Takeaway 3- Teaching difficult topics (money, media and screentime, intimacy)               There are several difficult topics that we as parents must teach our children. If we neglect to teach our children about these topics, they will still learn, but they will likely learn from others who will teach them incorrectly.               Teach them about Money.               There are several practical tips for teaching young children about money. For example, using a clear jar to save, so they can see the money growing in front of their eyes. The importance of setting the example you’d like your children to follow cannot be overstated. Children will learn what they are shown. Children must also be given the opportunity to experience using money, real cash and coins, to pay for things. T...

 Takeaway 2- Self Control and Grit Dr. Angela Duckworth has spent years studying what makes people succeed. Her research has defined two characteristics that predict achievement: self-control and grit. Defined by Duckworth, grit is the perseverance and passion for long-term goals while self-control is the voluntary regulation of impulses in the presence of momentarily gratifying temptations. This involves things like working hard and on the edge of your ability, being able to endure failures, struggles, and frustrations, then finding the determination to try again. These qualities do not come prepackaged with brand new babies but can be taught. Parents encourage these skills by allowing space for children to make mistakes, learning from their setbacks, and developing challenging yet attainable goals. Here are 3 ways to help your children develop grit and self-control. 1.        Help them find their passion, or at least an engaging activity. This...

 Takeaway 1- Emotion Coaching Dr. John Gottman engaged in several scientific studies that lead him to the deduction that the key to good parenting is in understanding the emotional foundation of difficult behavior. In his research, Gottman identified four types of parenting.               The Dismissing Parent who often dismisses, disengages, or ridicules in the face of negative emotions. They use distraction and feel emotions are detrimental. Rather than problem solve themselves, they tend to use the passing of time as a cure-all. This leads to children feeling that something must be wrong with them. They will grow with the inability to emotionally regulate.               The Disapproving Parent is even more negative, controlling, and judgmental with children’s emotions. This leads to very similar results for the children, distrusting their own ...